Written 5/7/24
I love this text from one of you:
“I’ve been so drained emotionally and physically and when your sparkle comes through it’s like a shot of espresso for my spirit, so thank you for that 🫶”
A lot of you feel the group wave instantaneously like she does, which is amazing and so much fun for me. But for some of you, the group waves just bring an overall, nice, calm, steady strength to your life. For some, the peace and ease accumulates and builds over time. Some of you feel the high every week and all through the follow-up days. Some of you have drastic deep emotional releases and then, get lighter as you keep joining the waves. Some feel supported and cared for during very scary things, like surgery, chemo or radiation. A few of you tell me that you don’t feel anything drastic, but just feel fine, but you keep joining week after week because you know it is good for you to have a massive dose of light. I noticed that some of you didn’t feel much until life gets tough, like a breakup or hospitalization, and then, the wave helps lift you back up again. Some of you get so far into the depths of despair that it takes a few weeks to climb out of it. If you are one of those, be sure to get the follow-up waves to help you move through the troubled times faster. And some of you don’t like the wave—at all. You miss the tuneups and the one on one work.
I understand. Before this, many years ago, when I moved to only energy tuneups, people missed the long phone calls with me. And before that, when I moved from in-person sessions to long distance sessions, they missed coming in person. And before that, West Virginian’s were upset that I left and moved my practice to Colorado. And before that, people missed when I did the hour-long healings for free, trade, or very little money. I love that you have loved every phase of my career. It is a little irritating though, when a few of you continue to ask me again if I will be doing the tuneups again, as if I will change my mind. The answer is no.
The reason that question rubs me the wrong way is that it’s like asking me if I would please go back to being the young pregnant wife of a farmer on 400 acres of land with a bunch of cattle, large wood spiders, and electric fences. At the time, I was totally into it. But you couldn’t pay me to live like that now. Speaking of paying me to go backwards, when I quit doing in-person sessions, I had people offering me a thousand dollars to please work on them in person. I can’t be bribed.
To explain my stance, I have advanced. I have changed. I am happier and brighter, and excited and stimulated. I’m all about change and have never been a people pleaser. Ever. Not once. I am just not wired for it. I expect to disappoint a lot of people every time I make an incredible change.
In my career, when I make a change, some people make it very clear that they want what they want. So, when I get the texts of how disappointed a few of them are, as icky as it feels to me, I robotically explain again, “No, I don’t know a healer to send you to, and no, I am not offering tuneups, and no I won’t make a note to let you know when I offer them again.” I just can’t go backwards for them.
I know that some people turn around and go back to the house that didn’t sell, or to the job they left, or to the man that they divorced, but I’ve never felt happy for very long if I try to evolve backwards. Evolution for me, means that I roll forward, even if I have to live people behind.
After I send out my response text to negative feedback again, I always break out in a huge grin and take a deep breath of freedom, like “I did it!” I did the impossible. One sign that we are really living our life is that people get upset, but I feel happy. Every good decision I’ve ever made is based on my happiness. How else can you know which way to go? It’s that simple. It sounds selfish to put your own happiness first, but when I’m happy, my light is overflowing. And guess who receives that huge overflow? You and everyone I encounter.
The group wave is growing. This has been the nature of my career. I lose a number of people when I change, but the new wave of wonderful souls that join me is always greater than the loss.
Speaking of the group wave growing, if you are in opposite time zones than mine, and wonder how it works as you are sleeping, the feedback is that you can wake up really refreshed the next morning as if you were in a healing state all night. You won’t be awake to see the stars come in, but a lot of people can’t check for them anyway while working, and some say they don’t feel anything when the actual star is sent, but feel the energy building steadily through the three Wednesday Waves.
Thank you for all of your feedback—the positive and the negative, because my clear and excited reaction shows me the way.
Here’s to another Wednesday Wave!
ARIEL
